There is a quotation I love and adore. This goes like this "Everything happens for a reason". See, as a human beings we can't understand or contemplate all the mysteries of the universe. We don't even know what are we doing here on planet Earth. We are just getting through life, day by day. So this quotation made me feel like there is purpose behind pain and suffering. When I say everything happens for a reason, I see a bigger picture.
Because, frankly speaking, I have laughed when I look back at the times I cried, and cried when I look back at the times that I laughed. Events would seemingly look like positive or lame, but in retrospect they would seem so wrong. And on the other hand, few happening would seem so wrong in the beginning, but as time goes by, it becomes the best thing that had ever happened to us.
Say, of course breaking up literally breaks our heart. We would be willing to do anything to make everything work. But alas, we would have to let that person go. It will feel so wrong at that moment. But after a few months or years, when you look back, you would understand that the relationship wasn't working or it would be toxic and you had to let go. And now you would have understood why it had to happen that way.
So this is the one rule of reality. Life makes sense only in retrospect. So don't worry to much. Don't worry about the future or regret the past. Just flow through life. Look at the sky. Jump through the puddles. And mostly, make every moment count. Create memories in the present moment. Love with all your heart. Live as if there is no tomorrow.
Dark rain.
